The social focus

Shall I consider you? 

Take your coat, (or show you the door)? 

If I do so, will you see me no more? 

Because in our grandparent's time, consideration was shown to all. 

But when I open the door, 

My heart falls.

Eyes dart towards your reflection in the TV screen,

The stove, the mirror, your phone, but never rise to meet me.