Well honestly...

Why is it when someone says "get help, nothing bad is going to happen if you do" and you end up getting help and then all of a sudden BAM!!! You lose your car, you lose your job, and your about to lose your house, but you'd think hey my family will stick with me until you find out your spouse has been cheating on you. So in other words your life sucks so you end up using that helping hand, and when you did everyone thinks our the bad person well no wonder people are taking their lives rather then getting help because its a lose/ lose situation. Now I'm not saying every situation is like that but there are some pretty nasty ones out there and instead of hiding it we should embrace it, that way those who fall to the bottom are congratualted when they hit the top. I myself have been to five rehabs for depression and I've met them all addicts, alcholics, suicidal people, sychosphrenics, you name it and these are people like everyone else who just had a really crappy things happen to them that triggered a domino effect. Now again not saying that every situiation is the same becuase there were those people who said F** it thats what we would call "to far gone" but it was the people who were begging for the help that kept getting all the bad breaks, so honestly, lucky or unlucky it dosent matter just dont treat people like they're the scum of the earth becuase they say they want help.