The Social World
Relation between girls and boys in social world
World=Planet
Social= Relate to appearance in the society
Only good things are shared in this social world
Example: Ratio calculation with respect to time
Experience of two young is being shared; mean knowledge of 40 years is shared in only months or few weeks.
Woman= 20-year-old
Man=20-year-old
Total = 40 years,
Days of Sharing = few months, suppose 3 months
3 months=90 days= 2160 hours= 129600 minutes= 7776000second
40 years= 480 months= 175200 days=2404800 hours= 2.5*10^8 minutes=1.5*10^10 seconds
Ratio Formula:
1.5*10^10 seconds: 7776000 seconds
1946 seconds: 1 seconds
32 minutes = 1946 seconds
Hence proved that during chatting one get 32 minutes to think and comment.
Woman seem to be like “Hoorin-Aien” (Hoor at Jannah) who had never committed sin in her past and assumed never can do it in future.
The man seems to be “Angel”, do you know angel? Creature of Allah, always busy in worshipping Allah, right from their birth who can’t do a sin it is because they don’t have the ability to do it. Even not able to think about bad deeds.
It seems like he/she is one of the best people in the world, nobody can compete him/her. No one can replace his/her. Or take place. But in reality, it’s totally different. Human is known for mistakes, learn from mistakes,
I have a question from you, the thing which starts with chatting or meeting at some park, is it be good for you, and for your future?
A term is used:
“Love at first sight”
Love…! And it is going to happen, at first sight, is not it a joke? I think it is the joke of the 21st century. I guess this joke might also be present in past, mean 20th, 19th… from the birth of Hazrat Adam (As), a son of Hazrat Adam had killed his brother for the sake of love. As it’s mentioned by history books that the first assassination was for the woman, love with the woman. If I define love there is only one love existing in this world, that’s family love (especially mother) that too become fatal when one starts loving Allah. If one loves Allah he/she surely loves mother, all others are well-wishers.
70 Mother loves == Allah Love
70 ML = 1 Allah love
After falling in love at first sight, prayers are made to Allah, that
“O Allah, I wish to marry with him/her…!” Praying is a good thing but it should be multidirectional. Mostly it is unidirectional which leads to bad things like hurting someone, fighting with the family. Pray like this “O Allah if he/she is good for my akhirah, lead me to success” keep the decision with Allah, discuss with the family, and don’t do a single action by yourself.
Example:
Once a person was playing cards, do you know cards? 52 cards, ace, diamond, heart, bird. A very famous game mostly played at nights-club between friends. One is praying to Allah that “O, Allah I want to win this game, is it right? That you are playing a cards game, using your money on game, mean betting, which is a bad thing and praying Allah.
Psychological factor
Intelligence:
It seems that his partner is very intelligent, I’m 100% sure he/she is intelligent. There comes a psychological factor,
Example: Calculation with respect to experience
At least one has 2seconds to answer a question; it is not only 2 seconds
2 seconds= 20-years’ experience of life
1 second = 10 years
2 seconds where a mind is working at its peak, so, it seems that there is no more intelligent than him/her. But in reality, it is totally different.
Things are modeled in such a way that if I write in this way that:
90% lie + 10 % truth = 100%