75 Years
Ancestry, history, DNA
Where we come from, our roots, our past
We can't change those things
A man born on a farm in rural Saskatchewan 1916
The first born of what would be a family of 6
Strapping, tall, broad....even the girls
Worked hard, helped raise the last of the siblings as his mother died
Baseball was his chosen hobby
The army his chosen path
Set off to boot camp in Ontario
A chance meeting and he met my Grandmother
A lady born in Southern Ontario 1923
The first born, a family of 5
A father who was a jack off all trades including a postman and bee keeper
A mom who I got to know as a sweet woman full of love
Her brother brought home this man from boot camp
For family supper.....and a chance meeting
And the start of their story and mine
A double wedding in 1943 her and her brother
Married at the house they grew up in
One I got to spend a lot of time in
He was across the ocean, was a day after Juno Beach
Assisted with the liberation of Holland
Lucky that he chose the field of communications and was a radio commander
Fixed the Queen's record player
She, moved to the city
Worked in a rivet factory
Made bullets as well
Made the cover of Life Magazine, unable to be retrieved as she couldn't remember the date
Married once the war ended
Started their journey
Small town living
My father, first born
I grew up with Grandparents
She not a nurturer by nature
Guided me through Girl Guides
He....lol....no clue what to do with a girl
The most excited I saw him get was with my first car
The age I am now
They had a house and the cottage
Two sons
My grandfather didn't spend recklessly
He treated her to things such as a new door on the house
But then drove 17 hours back to the jewellery store in her home town to buy her a new ring for her birthday.....one that I now have
They spent 65 years together before he passed
I will never see that time with a person
I have yet to experience the devotion he had with someone
I will never create someone's story
I am grateful for being able to know them
Know where they came from
Know what they went through
It is part of my story
Inherently it forms the foundation of who I am
Happy Anniversary xoxoxo
These are her original set of Wedding Rings, they will be 75 this month