Confusion

I was told

"It's not supposed to make sense;

It's just a feeling."

But then,

"Don't trust what you feel. Emotions are not Truth."

Next,

"He doesn't necessarily speak to you in words;

Sometimes it's a feeling, a pull on you heart."

Now I don't know,

I don't quite feel normal.

I don't quite comprehend normal.

I think the message has been lost in translation

From brain

To heart

To brain.

It's not in my brain, it's not in my heart

What am I not getting?