Dear Baba
I wanted to dance when I was little, You signed me up for dance classes.
When I got older you told me I was mature and shouldn't dance anymore.
I wanted to sing, so I joined the schools talent show. I sang live on stage.
When I got older you told me a women's voice shouldn't be heard.
I wanted to make friends. My friends were mostly male.
When I got older you told me that it would ruin my reputation.
I wanted to eat cake. So you bought me some on your way from work.
When I got older you told me I should watch my weight so I could marry.
I wanted to study psychology, so I bought alot of psychology books.
When I got older you told me that job doesn't pay and people will think your crazy.
I wanted to play games, so you let me play.
When I got older I wasn't playing games anymore but you made up many rules.
So Baba, if you ever read this, I'm sorry for not being a product of your traditions.
But I'm not sorry for realizing that there are loopholes in your rules.
I don't follow rules any more Baba, I make them.
Sincerly,
Your not so little daughter.
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