How To Torture A Man

How can you really hurt a man? Society will have you believe he has the world at his fingertips. If you want to wreck a man and completely take away his sense of self, you must make him believe he has no "self." A man is no longer a man when he doesn't see himself as worthy or equal to his brothers. A man loses his humanity when that which he holds dear is left to rot and die.

You must take what he holds secret and expose it.

Men have mastered the art of appearing confident and secure when their world is havoc within. You can break this confidence with a well-timed comment or complaint. You can shatter their walls by finding the one place they are insecure then exposing it to the world, showing their true face. And the world will reject their true selves. The world will tear down their value and sense of self. You can't protect that which is thrown to the wolves. If you want to hurt a man, expose him for the liar and fraud that he is, then he will torture himself.