Motto(s)
One of my many mottos: Take it like it is
Life is always tough. A lot of the times, we stress over what is inevitable. Life has existed for years and years, it goes way back, the way of life itself, flows naturally. To worry over every piece, only burdens your way of life.
Another one of my many mottos: When life hits you hard. Hit back harder.
(Direct quote from Rocky Balboa ["Rocky" movies]. Life quite literally might translate to difficult in some other language. It hits hard, it always will, at some point, you're going to be left in shambles while searching for comprehension, only to be utterly lost. Dust yourself off, get up and rise. Hit back. Otherwise, life is going to have a field day with you and beat you all the way into your grave and the path all the way up to that point isn't pretty.
Now, of course, these two mottos could very well contradict each other. But don't overthink it. There's always a balance. Hold your ground but also know what is really worth it. Also have the question of "Does this truly matter in five years" on repeat in your mind. You'll be surprised how many times it will help you.