A Conflict or a Bond?

Discourses are known to be stressful and sometimes provocative. This has earned them a strong atmosphere of conflict. However, I have another view on the subject: good dicussions bound people rather than distract them from each other.

To begin with, we basically get information by asking people around us. Then, if the answer proves to be opposed to оur previous experience, knowledge etc., we tell them what we think is right. This is the way any discussion begins.

In addition, arguments with strong opponents make a human's character strong. They help us find the most convincing proofs to our ideas. There is a poem called "Ode to my enemies" by Lina Kostenko, saying: "If I have any muscles of the soul, it is all thanks to you, my foes". Those words do not necessary refer to real enemies, but can sure be applied to any important discussion.

Finally and most importantly, a discussion with a completely different person is a chance to surf into a new world of human minds and find some unexpected truth about yourself. I know people whom I did not understand before I got to talk to them. When we discuss something, the views or beliefs that usually look weird or rediculous may become clear.

In conclusion, it is indeed essential to take parts in disputes, as they help human beings to form bonds between various thoughts, ideas and viewpoints. Discuss this work of mine, too!