To be,

That is the answer.

I have challenged myself to be an attentive listener

To be a patient driver

To be a parent who demonstrates and encourages positivity and creativity

To be a reliable partner

To be a willing worker

To be a thrifty spender

To be a homeowner

To be a better cook and baker

To be a less judgmental

To be more organized

But most importantly

To be less critical of myself.