T-shirts

You got upset because I didn't like the shirts you gave me, that you custom made so here's an explanation.

Some people don't like labels, I do. I love them. I love have the security in knowing who I am. I like being able to say that I'm a queer trans guy. The thing is, I don't flaunt that, I don't have enough security to flaunt that. We live in a society that trans people get murdered for being trans. People are murdered because they aren't someone's definition of normal.

"Can't think straight," is a great saying it's funny and true. My labels are constantly changing but I'm a guy and I like girls and guys sometimes, but right now I'm not secure enough in my masculinity to date guys because I feel like it's a competition to prove that I'm enough of a guy, so right now at least, I'm straight, I date girls and I like girls.

I don't like the word transcend, I'm not transcending the gender binary, I'm a guy plain and simple, maybe a trans guy but I'm a guy before all of that.

I don't like having the, trans symbol, I guess, on me, the pin is cool and yes being trans is a part of me but it's not my whole identity and you seem to think it's the only thing that matters and you make me feel like all the other parts of me don't matter. I'm pretty okay at art, I drew a giant map on my wall of the world and each country is painted with the design of its flag. I'm a hell of a good cook. But you seem to not care about those things.