Oh, the Irony
Once, long ago, I had a crush. Unfortunately, my crush had recently started dating a nice girl who was extremely active in many clubs. One of these clubs that she was involved in was the Enviromental Club. Because his girlfriend was in this club, he also joined in it. I, noticing that he went to every event, meeting, and fundraiser, decided that joining the club would lead to a better friendship between the two of us. Being the ambitious young woman I am, and wanting to impress a certain young man, I became the vice president of the Environmental Club. Of course, his girlfriend was the president. Eventually, after about 3 months, the two of them broke up. After waiting a respectable time period, I went up to him and asked him if he wanted to hang out sometime. It was then that he told me the reason for breaking up with his girlfriend. It turns out that going to every meeting and event made him miss out on a few fun events, and he was tired of having his life revolve around the Enviromental Club. He also mentioned that he wouldn't date another person who was so dedicated to the club. When I mentioned that I was actually thinking about quitting, he said that I shouldn't quit on his account. Moral of the story, don't go joining clubs just to get closer to a dude you like, for you may just become stuck.