I don’t understand why?

I don't understand why people always need to know why?

Why does there have to be reason behind everything? Maybe if we stop asking why so often, we will learn to accept that sometimes it just is what it is.

I am so tired of whys? Why am I the way I am? Why do I do the things I do? Why am I not a better person? Why did this happen to me? Why didn't this happen to me?

Life happens, and as far as I can tell no one has worked out why yet? Maybe we need to focus more on how? How can I better myself? How can I be more constructive? How can I make my life more meaningful?

Maybe when you stop asking why and expecting a miracle answer, and start asking alternative questions, you will find the greater understanding that you are looking for. Stop looking for reasons why things have already happened, stop looking to reasoning behind everything. Just live. Did you ever stop to consider that the happiest people in the world are those that don't constantly need answers to why?

At the end of the day does it really matter why? It is what it is. Either fix it, move on, become better, if you don't understand something you want to understand, educate yourself on the topic, but inregards to the question of why? Lifes to short. People think that they will have greater understanding by answering why questions? Maybe the greatest understanding is accepting the fact that sometimes it really doesn't matter why......