They didn’t have the right tools to love me but they might for someone else.

I’ve realized that sometimes your ex isn’t a bad person. Maybe they’re young, maybe they’re stupid or maybe you’re asking them to care for you in a way they aren’t capable of. Sometimes people meet and there’s a flame. Maybe it’s brief or maybe it lasts a while til the flame dwindles and there’s nothing but ash. You can try to rekindle or salvage what’s left but it should’ve never have died in the first place. You simply weren’t meant for each other and the love wasn’t there to keep the flame growing. I don’t believe people are born bad but there is a lot of ignorance. It’s why humans strives to educate themselves. Love can change someone for the better. Do not try to change your partner if they love you they will learn to compromise. I’m sorry to all the men and women who have been hurt in the past by old passions and infatuations. None of you are bar people because you couldn’t make it work.