Learning

As I sit down to have my breakfast it suddenly dawned on me as I gazed into my bowl of cold cereal this can't be the best of my life. I decided then and there it's time to teach my brain and heart to learn some new lessons. They need to Learn to work to together and not against each other. Now comes my dilemma how to accomplish this feat. I hit the www to see what's out there that might help. Very quickly I Learn that there is a lot of "Get better at communicating with your mate" " How to make him want only you" Etc, Etc...... I learn very quickly that all they want is your money. They deal in vagueness and simple things I already know. So I guess I did learn something about being your true self, but that's where my problem starts. I'm real and I guess too honest for almost every guy I meet. They seem to want you to be honest but when you give them what they ask for they don't know how to handle you. They freak out and withdraw making me wonder"Ok what's up" "Did I do something wrong". Well I've Learned that it wasn't me! He just likes the idea of Me but can't handle the reality of Me! So what can I Learn from this or any of the so called self help rigamaroll? Well for me I Learned that the male is a fragile delicate beast and most have No Idea what they want or need. They say one thing and do another. So what I have Learned is to be happy with me and my life and God willing I will meet that rare gem that understands me and I understand him. I am continuously Learning that I am a Great person and have a lot to offer and he will lucky enough to have me and not just what he has Learned over the years from just being male.Learn that it's ok to talk about feelings and be open with themselves and their mate. Then both of us will have our needs and wants satisfied and can weather any storms together. Learn to be open stop playing games and just be yourself. Learn that if the person you are with doesn't seem to grasp any of this then if you think he's worth it TEACH him . If he really cares then deep inside he know he can Enjoy Learning a new skill.