“LoVE Advice”
“Don’t you dare to assume”
One of the most important advice that i can give is Never assume things on your own.
Though i have never been into any relationship but i have been a victim of such a thing in my friendship.
My friend and I had crush on some guys ( they were not the same persons) we use to talk about them, and she use to tell me about that guy, that how beautiful and elegant was he, and I use to the same.
And then the Guy i use to think of got engaged with someone, so i was feeling sad those days, and my fried use to comfort me and she was so damn helpful towards me.
But one day i found out she wasn’t interested talking to me, she wasn’t giving me the attention, even when i tried to talk to her she got vanished.
So the very next day i decided to clear this out, and i hold her hand dragged her out from the classroom and asked the reason for her weired behaviour.
“I don’t want to talk to you, coz now that your guy is committed to someone else, you want to hit on the guy i like”, she replied.
Damn! I was shocked, i couldn’t get the right words out of my mouth.
“How could you even think like this?”, i clinched my fists.
“Yes! that’s true.”
“I didn’t even thought about it, and i was concerned about you.”
“Thanks to Pragya, who made me realize the intention that you have.
And you know what ’We are still friends today, though it might seem a little thing to you, but this little thing was enough to ruin my friendship if i wouldn’t have confronted her, or i would have shown my ego at this point.
And it was the communication that helped us out. So “Communication” is also the key, But first and formost thing is “Not to assume anything”.