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this is what I found that has helped me. not my writing, just wanted to share. if you're reading this, feel free to message me to talk about mental health anytime. my personal addition is I'm looking forward to holding my godchildren when they're born.
"Because the pain I would inflict on my loved ones is far greater than the pain I'm enduring right now."
"If it makes you feel better in the documentary "The Bridge," people who have jumped and survived from the Golden gate bridge have felt instant regret after jumping"
"Because I don't quit."
"If I kill myself it can't and won't get better."
"Schopenhuaer, probably the most nihilistic of all major modern philosphers, condemned suicide. He argues that suicide is not a solution to anything - it merely negates the problem. Like staring at a difficult math problem and tossing it away as the solution. Certainly, you don't have to deal with the math problem anymore, but you haven't solved it. .... Whatever meaning is, whatever the answer to life, it must be sought in the here and now." (read that last line again. so powerful.)
"Death is waiting for each of us anyway; why call on it before our time?" (my two cents: death is infinite and life is brief. just stick with it, babe.)
"I'm not going to let her bury her child." (speaking of one's mom)
"You should keep living because you haven't found the reason to. Once you do, trust me, you'll never want to leave."
"I have a hope that the future will come through for me like it has in the past. Things really do get better, they just fucking suck right now." (my two cents again: if you have a tiny sliver, a shred, a grain of hope, that's enough. let that little hopeful dust mite keep you rooted here for a while.)
"Realizing my own perceptions were so negatively skewed is what helped lift me out of a major episode a few years back. I try to always keep it in mind whenever the feeling creeps back up."
"One thing to note here is that it's likely that people suffering from depression aren't in a good position to reliably estimate how valuable their future life will be. So even if it feels as if the future probably holds no value, you shouldn't trust that intuition. But of course I admit that it might feel that way."*
*I can confirm. No healthy mind actually thinks of suicide as a viable option, and if you're feeling that way, please reach out to me or someone else for help. I've been there and I know how to get out, and I'd like to share that with anyone who needs it.
Sorry, you’re not what we’re looking for.
I wrote this 2 years ago but I've been feeling like this often. Reminder to anyone reading: You're good enough exactly the way you are. You are worthy of respect simply for existing. Big hugs :)
I’m not sorry
For going to bed at 3am
Instead of working
Until dawn.
I’m not sorry
For studying with my friends
Instead of sitting
All alone.
I’m not sorry
For going home at night
Instead of playing
A sport I hate.
I’m not sorry
For stopping piano lessons
Instead of forcing
Myself to play.
I’m not sorry
I chose not to run for council
Because you wanted it
Not me.
I’m not sorry
I chose to tutor instead of study
Because my friend’s at
A fifty-three.
I’m not sorry
I chose not to take physics
Because I loved Spanish
So much more.
I’m not sorry
I chose to take Saturday off
Because my family means
The world.
I’m not sorry
I refused to jump
Through every single hoop.
I’m not sorry
I didn’t check
Every single box you drew.
I’m not sorry
I used my time
To write poetry
And truth.
I’m not sorry
I never tried
To change myself
For you.
A dull clattering.
December 30th, 7:28 am, 2013
“And then I wanted to see you before I left,” I exclaimed, staring at the red bundled mess on Nurse Johnson’s head, “but I ran out of time.” I wondered if she dyed her hair, or if she thought to at all, when it looked so carelessly disheveled. She was quiet, slowly picking up the fallen bottles on the floor. I couldn’t remember when I put them down. My hand stopped reaching for the nurse’s papery clothes, the silence shrouding the room, dusting over the windowsill, settling on the crumpled sheets.
When she finally spoke, she murmured in a faint voice,“You should rest now.” I picked at my cast again, looking down. Her gaze rested behind me, unfaltering, and when she left, I wanted to trade all the stars in the world for her to linger a moment more.
•••
December 29th, 11:50 pm, 2013
I was jolted awake by a dull clattering on the floor. It must’ve been the lady in the next room, I thought, the one with the heavy glasses and the book with the golden spine. I could see her sometimes, through the corridors, peering inside my room, but she never talked to me. She was always reading out of the book, and there were hardly any pictures. I don’t know what could interest her so much.
“Hello.” A wispy voice settled in the air. I glanced towards the foot of my bed, and a figure loomed in the dark. “Are you another nurse? I’ll go back to sleep now, don’t be mad.”
I heard a faint chuckle, and hesitantly asked again, “Are you here to take more tests?”, propping myself up to sit against the wall. The sheets rustle loudly when no one speaks, I’ve noticed that now. “No child, I, I suppose I’m a ghost now, aren’t I?”, he said, in a strange manner, one I had never heard before. I wanted to sound clever, so I answered, “I know ghosts. I used to hear stories about a Christmas ghost. They were very long.” I tried to think of why I had remembered that, when I couldn’t remember much else, and reached over to turn on my lamp. I had never seen a ghost before, and it seemed very impressive to.
“Child, how old are you?” I said I was eight, but next year I’ll be nine. I think. “Next year should come very soon, I think.” I smiled. He had a very soft voice, as if he was drifting away. “You remind me of my daughter.” And then, when I looked at him, he had such a forelorn and lonely gaze, that it reminded me of someone I used to know. She was a blurry figure in my mind now, and was strange to have all these thoughts, when the doctors said I wouldn’t be able to think of much after what happened with the car.
I asked him what his daughter was like, because no one had talked for some time, and it seemed nice to. He said she was very frail and beautiful, and that he although he knew her not long, he desperately wanted to visit her.
“I would visit you, if you wanted.”, I remarked, and he smiled ever so slightly.“Where is your mother dear now?” I looked at his face in the dim light, and decided that ghosts were very nice. “The get-well people said she was in the car where I got hurt and lost my thoughts. I asked when she would come back, but they keep saying the same thing.” Mr. Ghost’s smile faltered a moment, and he replied, “The get-well people?” I nodded, my hair falling in my eyes. I used my lumpy cast to brush it away. “When they come, they always say to me, ‘get well soon’, and that I would go home with them once I was.” I didn’t say that I didn’t want to go with them, because I’ve never told anyone that, and I didn’t say that I was waiting for my mother to come take me home, because I was afraid he would give me the same answer and tell me she couldn’t, not for a while. I don’t like that answer.
“Mr. Ghost, how did you pass?” He remarked that that was a good way of putting it, as passing a place, leaving it to go away. He also said his name, but I could not understand very well, so I called him Mr. D. He then asked about the Christmas ghost story, which I said I could not find in my thoughts, and explained what I could regarding the doctors.
“You have a broken mind. All the great ones do. I could tell you the story, if you’d like. I wrote it, you know.” I was astonished. How could a ghost write a story? I asked him eagerly, and when he replied, the hours ticked away so swiftly that I hardly noticed it passing at all. “Ah, but, my dear, I was not always a ghost. You see, I went away because of a train...
•••
December 30th, 12:23 pm, 2013
“...and it rendered me so very ill that I could not carry on much longer. It was an unlikely matter, befalling some one like that, and such long years have passed since then that I may have a broken mind as well.” When I finished, the child laughed with such ferocity, I had never met any who was more blest in a laugh.
I wished I could bottle it up and take it with me, a very human thing to do, to have something physical to ground me. The little creature then remarked, “You have a funny way of talking, Mr. D.” I could not help the overwhelming feeling of happiness at her peculiar humour, and expressed my desire at telling my Christmas Carol to her, at which she agreed with a vast, substantial smile.
Often she would stop me, enquiring what the more heard words meant, many of which was “apparition”, “Fezziwig”, and “Bah Humbug”. The last she took a particular interest in, repeating it in her light voice, and it was then that I decided it might not be so burdensome if I were to stay. But if I did, would I tell her the truth about what would befall her? Amongst all the others, would this girl who resembled my dear Dora accept what I say, or argue the opposite?
My wandering thoughts were interrupted by her question. “You’ve talked a long time, do you want some water?” I merely nodded. I watched as she untangled herself of the wires surrounding her, machines echoing solemnly. I watched as her fragile body reached out for an outline in the shadows, her little hand shaking in the dark.
I opened the window when she looked back, the moon brimming in the sky, her with a handful of glass bottles clinking against each other. I wondered if she could see me clearer now, with her bright eyes, still murmuring under her breath, breathing ever so softly. I stood then, and held out my hand.
“Do you want to come with me?”
She remained motionless.
“To wait for your mother?”
Droplets wet the bottles. I had never seen a girl cry so silently before.
She whispered faintly, “I want to stay.” I closed my eyes. So many others had begged for their lives when it neared its end, their voices a wail inside my head.
“Then you shall stay.” I could not bear to answer her the same.
I turned to leave then, the curtains billowing in front of me, trying to escape from their bondage. Then I felt her hand in mine.
“Would you come back, if I wanted to?” She spoke with an airy lightness, her words soaked in tears.
“I will, if you promise to stay.” I grasped her hand tighter, and lifted her up, the bottles falling to the floor with a dull clattering.
•••
December 30, 7:29 am, 2013
I picked up the bottles, one by one, while her body lay on a cold and unforgiving slab. It seemed futile to do anything, but nevertheless I persisted in my task, gathering them up in my hands, so much bigger than hers that I wondered how she managed to hold so many. I wanted to say something to break this frozen silence, being so used to her quiet little voice chattering away. When I finally opened my mouth, all I could say was, “You should rest now.” Such a meaningless thing to say.
Laying my hand on the door, I pushed it open and nearly stumbled into Mrs. Prim.
“Nurse Johnson, can I-”
Her gaze stopped behind me, on the empty bed, the mess of equipment left behind.
“You should be in your room, Mrs. Prim.” I croaked out, trying to steer her back. She shook her head rapidly, tearing splattering on her glasses, her face contorting.
“No, no, it’s not possible..” I set down the bottles by the door and took the book from her hands, for fear she might fall.
“Mrs. Prim, I’ve told you this before.” I sounded shaky, a failed attempt at trying to console her, “She’s gone.”
“I, I can’t even remember that m, my own daughter is gone, it’s my fault, and I ca, can’t even reme-”
•••
December 30th, 7:36 am, 2013
As the two collapsed into each other, a nurse with a sense of belonging with the child, and a mother who unknowingly killed her, they cried. They shed tears for what they lost, for what they had, and for what they will never have again, sitting on the cold tiled floor, and as they gasped for air through their muffled sobs, a single book fell with a dull clattering . It was a small book, with wrinkled pages and a golden spine, titled A Christmas Carol.
Time faded away so quickly then, it was hard to tell the beginning from the end.
Dada Mkubwa (Big Sister)
Crack. Tsss. Crack. Crack. Crack. Tsss. The boom of striking leather thundered throughout the library. Shadows danced playfully like ballerinas along the walls as she peppered combinations on the swinging bag. Her hijab and skirt swished as she circled the heavy bag. Farm work before and after school had tuned her arms into cannons. Feint with the right, left hook to the body, uppercut to the head.
“10 seconds!” came the shrill voice of a small girl, stopwatch around her neck.
The fighter unleashed a flurry of punches. The once playful ballerinas now became relentless demons only to cease at the bell. She breathed deeply against the bag to recollect herself. It was almost time to walk her little brother home from his madrasa class. She wiped her brow with a cloth and scurried past the sewing class that shared the library.
On nights when her six-year-old brother, Shabani, would finish early, they would race home before sunset. Young men on motorcycles, or pikipikis, patrolled the streets at night, causing a nuisance to local families.
The fading sun cast an orange glow on her as Shabani burst out of class and into Asha’s arms.
“Ew, you’re all sweaty,” Shabani said as he examined his now gleaming arms.
“I just finished sewing class and it was really hot in the library today,” Asha said, as she smelled her armpits. “Come on. You can tell me about your day on the way home.”
Shabani gave her a suspicious look and shrugged.
The siblings scuttled past homes with high metal gates and barred windows. Shabani was deep into a story about his math class when the whine of an engine came from behind them. Asha’s back stiffened and her grip tightened around her little kaka’s hand.
“Hey, where are you going?” shouted the man over his motor. He reeked of Konyagi, the local liquor. The siblings said nothing and looked forward as they walked.
“Are you too good to answer me?” probed the man. Asha could sense the impatience in his voice and quickened their pace. The young man revved his engine and was now in front of the two.
“We just want to go home,” said Asha firmly, pulling her brother along.
“Not until we become friends first,” slurred the driver.
The brother and sister jolted into a sprint. The driver whipped his pikipiki around and was in front of them in an instant. He dismounted his bike, seized Asha’s collar, and started pulling her towards a dark alleyway. Eyes closed, Shabani roared as he rained his tiny fists upon the assailant. Crack. Tss. Crack. Crack. He opened his eyes to disbelief and saw the driver motionless on the ground. Before Shabani could comprehend what happened, he was whisked home.
At dinner, Shabani told the family of his bravery while Asha ate in silence. Shabani reached over, grabbed Asha’s hand, and said, “Don’t be sad, dada, you can keep going to sewing classes. I’ll protect us!”
Asha gave Shabani a light squeeze and said, “Okay, kaka.”
Title: Dada Mkubwa (Big Sister)
Genre: Flash-Fiction
Age Range: Young Adult
Word Count: 508
Author Name: Michael Ogburn
Why your project is a good fit: I aim to give readers a peek into different cultures and viewpoints of others they may not regularly encounter.
The Hook: The big sister can crack.
Synopsis: A young girl who secretly defies her culture's gender norms saves herself and her brother.
Target Audience: Young girls tired of being molded.
Bio: I am from a small town and always wanted to try and live abroad. After graduating from university, I moved to Taiwan and taught kindergarten. Later, I moved to Tanzania for two years and taught 3rd and 6th grade. Currently, I am teaching 6th grade at a school in Costa Rica.
Platform: Microsoft Word
Education: Elementary education degree
Experience: My writing experience is minimal but I have always enjoyed writing. I have only recently begun to write stories that are meant to be read.
Personality/writing Style: I'm new to writing and I'm still learning to find my voice. However, I'd like to have the ability to push the envelope and defy cultural norms
Likes/hobbies: Mma, muay thai, bjj, hiking, diving, dog walking, reading, and eating
Hometown: Small Town in Oregon
Age: 29
Fire by Mehreen Ahmed
Laura stood at her window in the forest hut, watching a jaundiced sky. The bats and the crows flew in uncertain directions at dusk. There was a blaze over the tall gum trees. Laura couldn't figure out what it was. The telltale sign from the yellow sky suggested the end of time. The blaze continued to grow high, then higher. The creatures of the forest, the possum, and the dingoes, and the Tasmanian Tigers ran amok around the bend deeper yet, into the forest. The stifling air made Laura cough up phelm. Distant cries of human voices carried distress. All Laura could see was an engulfing fire. Fire which overwhelmed her and the bush rapidly. Trees and houses and the animal habitat burnt to cinder in this inferno. It burnt for days on end. It burnt without ebb. It still burnt, a permanent haze in the sky darkened the forest. There was no reprieve, no lights, but all cosuming darkness of a fire sparks like ubiquitous fireflies.
I’m still a dreamer when I’m on the phone
Mom & Dad,
Tell me what’s worse - sitting miserably, wishing you could live the life of your dreams, or living your dreams and realizing you’re just as miserable as you were before? ’Cause I used to think it was the first one, and that the depression that came with this town was holding me down, keeping me back from living my life. Now I realize you can’t outrun sadness. And you know what the stupidest part is? Everything is exactly what I dreamed. It’s everything I’ve ever wanted. It’s perfect. And for some reason, I’m still sitting here, getting tearstains on this letter to you. This is the first time in my life I don’t know what I want, because I chased my dream - packed my bags, hopped on a plane, the whole thing - and I’m not any happier than I was before. Worse, even. You know, if this isn’t it, where else am I gonna go? What else am I gonna do? This is my only dream, and it’s not enough for me, I guess. But the real kicker is this: I can’t even call it a day and come back home, because the only thing that kept me going before was dreaming my dreams, and some days that wasn’t even enough. Now, I’m all out of dreams. I’ve got nothing left but you two, and for some reason, I’m over here and you’re over there. I’m not really sure why I’m not in my bed at home right now. You know, I haven’t slept comfortably in this bed for two months. And at this point, I’m kinda feeling like the relief of crawling back into my bed at home would outweigh the shame. But I’m not gonna tell you that or send you this. I’m going to tell you I’m happy, because the one thing worse than realizing that living your dreams contains just as much harsh reality as everything else in life is telling your parents that. I can pretend I’m still a dreamer when I’m on the phone.
Love you so much,
Monsters
On the bushy, green grass, he watches the sky. Everyone around him does the same, instinctually, they are afraid. A bright light competes with the sun for the attention of the creatures. As the comet approaches the Earths atmosphere, it slightly shifts, and misses the Earth just slightly.
He looks around, everyone else just goes back to munching on grass, though he feels as if something important has just happened. The bright circle missed, how will it be different?
"Bye! See you tomorrow!" Hazel calls to her friend as she walks through her gate, her eyes squinting into the sun blocked slightly by the dome. "Mom! Are you home?" She calls into the house as she puts down her bag on the kitchen counter.
"Yeah, honey! I am about to leave for work, another one got in. Can you go feed Blacky?" Hazel's mother walks into the living room and grabs her purse off the counter.
"Sure, be safe." Hazel hands her mom the telephone she was looking for, and recieves a kiss on the head as a thank you. After her mother leaves, Hazel rolls a hay bail from the barn to the front of her acrage where her pet stegasourous lives.
"Hey, Blacky." As the gently beast brings its head down to the hay, Hazel climbs on like she has so many times before. "I hope mom is ok." She sighs. "That is the 4th velocorapter to break into our dome." She stokes her friend's strong neck and considers this. "Do you think the raptors don't like that they can't explore everywhere? I mean, do you mind being confind to a certain area of land?"
Blacky wheezes a bit, as if to tell her that it does, but it is ok.
"I guess I wouldn't like it if people were preventing me from going where I wanted to go. But then again, people are only allowed to stay in the domes." Hazel slides back down Blacky's neck. "I'm gonna get to the bottom of this." She says with determination.
The exit of her dome is only a ten minute bikeride from her house. This is the place where all of the officials dispurse of waste. With out thinking, since she knows that it will probably change her mind, she types in her mom's code and opens the door.
"No turning back now." She mutters to herself. As she opens the thick, steel door, she is shocked at the scene that awaits her. In front of her, there is a waste land scattered with trash mountains, and covered in a haze of human made pollution. She tropes down the metal staircase, her mouth open in terror at what she is seeing.
Just 5 steps behind her, is a green environment with constantly fresh air and unlimited energy. Hazel can't help but feel guilty now for every peice of trash she has created and every light she has left on with out use.
Her white sneakers hit the sand colored dirt, and she is blinded by the sun pounding down on her pale skin.
"This isn't right." She is sad, but more angry. How could they do this to the animals that were here first? Her shoulder lengthe hair blows into her mouth, and she turns her head to get her face out of the wind.
"AAAAHH!" Hazel screams, horrified at what is only 100 yards to her left. There lies rotting dinasour corpses, none of which look like they died of natural causes.
Is this what her mom is doing on these late nights, when Hazel was so worried about her getting hurt. She had always been told that they were being protected from the monsters on the outside, but now she thinks that they should have been worried about the monsters on the inside.
She storms up the stairs with new determination that she has never expireinced before, she will do something about this. People have to know that it is not the dinosours that are in the fault here.
She approaches the door in rage and pulls on the handle. It is locked. There is no way back in.
To be continued(maybe).....
Who I Appear To Be
I am a confident women, a professional that is on my way to the top, a caring wife, and a loving mother. This is what I want you to see, no wait, what I need you to see. The truth is, I am a shell of an ambitious person that has been put down and is now numb and full of a plague of anxieties. I overthink the simplest of comments and remarks made to me and, when you think I’m not listening, behind my back. I often feel like I don’t fit in with anyone, and even when I try I’m left out. So, I’ll put my professional face on once more and make the people around me, those who don’t know me, think - wow why can’t I be like her, she has her life together, her family is what an American family should be, and she is so happy. Meanwhile, I’ll be once again trying to climb up from the depths of my own personal hell day after day.
#anxiety #whoIam #appearancesaredeceiving