My life, my opinions for life!
The only bad breakups I had was when I tried to end it and they (both 1st and later 2nd) tried to keep me with lies. That was the worst ever and I never felt sad but angry and disgusted with them.
So the 1st one needed someone for sex only and he showed through a lot of things, while he thought I was stupid enough to not realize it. Later after a dialogue (argument as everyone says) he tried to threaten me by saying he was going to end his life. Then when I said enough is enough he wanted to check my phone to see if it was me who was saying it or if it was my friends pushing me to do it. He even wanted to hack them to find out. Crazy person no1.
The second one fed me with lies and bunch of them, while I was stupid enough to spend money to go see him cause he always had "something", so as I was in love,I went to see him but hey I was good idiot with him too. When I once more had enough, I was pushing him to come and see me because he had a job and money unlike me, but every time he was saying YES, he was canceling or never went online or answer my calls so that he can be the one who is right after all. So when I tried to break up with him because I found someone better than him, guess what....he threatened me too. And he took it far saying that my ex was calling me things to others and that he loves me and gonna change and when I asked him to give me the evidence he said okay but then again he didn't cause it felt right for him and his exact words was "Go find them yourself, I am not gonna give them cause I paid for those.". So yeah congrats to me to have find a boyfriend like him saying he loves me then calls me whore then again he loves me and it went on and on. So I blocked that bastard and now I am good.
Yes it's gonna take time to heal a little by that shock but I never cried for people who treated like shit. I am a person too, I deserve to be treated the way I need to be treated as your girlfriend and as a person.
But then again, why would you cry? Yes there was beautiful moments, yes you will cry over them but remember that the other moved on and is not crying for you! So cry for the beautiful moments, love them, keep them but move on too. He/She will be in your memories as something good or bad and you can always go back then and tell them to your future kids or pet and at the same time try to make new memories even if it is alone or with someone.
YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY EVEN AFTER A BREAK UP!